It is a simple truth that just by changing our perspective about things and people around us, nothing changes and yet, everything in our world changes. Based on Buddhist teachings, this first compilation of talks by H.E. Tsem Tulku Rinpoche brings an ancient philosophy into our contemporary lives, showing us new ways of dealing peacefully with difficult situations… without having to resort to retreats in a cave! The key message of these teachings is that our fixed, often false preconceptions are most damaging to us and our relationships with others; and that by letting go of preconceived notions, opinions and expectations, our realities can change for the better.